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Failure Isn’t Fatal and the Times You Fall on Your Butt

It seemed like a good idea at the time. Maybe it was all those Dog Whisperer episodes.  Maybe the hours of natural horsemanship moving horses with a carrot stick made me overconfident. Either way–it was a bad idea. A few months ago, my family adopted the sweetest border collie.  She is 62 pounds of pure… Continue reading Failure Isn’t Fatal and the Times You Fall on Your Butt

Character · Christianity · Christmas · Mothering · Parenting · parenting · Women

Breaking Through the Silence of Your Christmas Night

Her voice carried through the house.  That soft, small voice, struggling to sing  on pitch and the hands playing a new and choppy song, stopped me in my tracks. In the midst of a busy Christmas moment I discovered this girl preparing a gift for me, a special song to be sung for a mother’s heart.… Continue reading Breaking Through the Silence of Your Christmas Night

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Keeping Your Balance and Resisting the Martha-Trap

She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” (Luke 10:40) I think Martha gets a bad rap in this Scripture. Here she is trying to serve dinner (which I’m sure everyone enjoyed) and she looks to… Continue reading Keeping Your Balance and Resisting the Martha-Trap

Character · Christianity · Mothering · parenting · Thanksgiving · Women

Dancing in the Dark and Learning to Give Thanks in All Circumstances

My house smells amazing as the scent of pumpkin pie floats from the kitchen into my little work place.  Christmas music is playing and all feels right with the world. But if I’m honest some things in my world are not all right.  Your world probably has a few things not all right, either.  I… Continue reading Dancing in the Dark and Learning to Give Thanks in All Circumstances

Character · Christianity · Disappointment · Empty Nest · Family Life · Mothering

Life’s Unexpected Twists and Living with the Shame of it All

  Life has a way of turning on you at times, doesn’t it?  Out of nowhere it hits you with the unexpected and leaves you wishing you could just stop and get off the merry-go-round for a while.  Unfortunately, you can’t.  The world keeps spinning and everyone else keeps moving. Somehow you have to try… Continue reading Life’s Unexpected Twists and Living with the Shame of it All

Character · Christianity · Discipleship · leadership · Ministry · Mothering · pastor's wife · pastoring

Knocking the Chip off the Shoulder: Defeating Defensiveness

I’ve been in ministry for a long time.  I guess I’ve been in life a long time, too.  Perhaps that makes me old, though, I prefer to call it seasoned.   My husband and I have led a variety of people over the years. Most are amazing people to lead. But there is one population that… Continue reading Knocking the Chip off the Shoulder: Defeating Defensiveness

Biblical beauty · Character · Christianity · Empty Nest · Family Life · Ministry · Mothering · Parenting · parenting · Women

A Note to My Daughters about Life and Living

Some days I have to take a break from social media. The news, the grapevine, the problems, and the constant opinions of others agitates me.  A full diet of social media is information overload and emotions overwhelmed and can leave one vacillating between guilt, anger, and fear with the simple scroll of the mouse. As a… Continue reading A Note to My Daughters about Life and Living

Character · Christianity · Middle Age · middle-age · Mothering · Parenting · Perserverence · Women

Mama Bear Patrol and Cheering on the Next Generation

 I’m not sure how it happens but you know it always does.  Your child says they want to do something and somehow you end up working hard to make it happen. My oldest daughter recently decided she wanted to run a 5k.  I had decided that due to some physical issues and a general lack… Continue reading Mama Bear Patrol and Cheering on the Next Generation

Character · Christianity · Horsemanship · Parenting · Special Needs Children · Special Needs Moms · Women

Staring Down Those Insecurities

I’ve been working with horses for a few years.  My first and favorite horse, Sky, has been a great joy to work with.  Some would say that she trained me and I would agree. I was introduced to natural horsemanship shortly after I adopted Sky and I’ve never looked back.  I love it for a… Continue reading Staring Down Those Insecurities

Adoption · Adoption · Character · Christianity · Family Life · Middle Age · middle-age · Ministry · Mothering · Parenting · parenting · Perserverence · Special Needs Children · Special Needs Moms · Uncategorized · Women

My Unresolved Anger with Time

Dear Time, Maybe it’s middle-age. Maybe it’s the chaotic pace of life, or maybe it’s just me, but I find myself angry with you. You loom over me, always reminding me I’ll never finish all that needs to be done.  I’d like to play fair, but how can I when you care nothing for me? No matter… Continue reading My Unresolved Anger with Time